Traveling with My Sister

"If you don't understand how a woman could both love her sister dearly and want to wring her neck at the same time, then you were probably an only child." -- Linda Sunshine

Having grown up with my sister for 26 years, I knew what I was getting myself into when she and I decided to travel to Europe for two weeks a few years ago.

Those of you who have older sisters know what it is like to be picked on, ignored, have your hair pulled, and even tricked to do some pretty humiliating and/or stupid things like stand by the side of the road and wave at various cars driving by the house. Oh, and did I mention I was three years old at the time!

Anyway, as we grew older, and she moved away, our relationship has become much stronger as we respect one another and actually listen to what each other has to say. When planning our trip to Europe, we talked on the phone for hours, plotting and planning each day -- we're planners, that's how we grew up.

When the day came to leave for Paris, the last thing my mom said to the two of us, besides "I love you," was "Remember, this is a trip you'll remember for the rest of your lives. Make good memories and don't be fighting!"

Naturally, we gave her the whole ho-hum answer of "Okay mom, we know, we know" but little did we know, we actually did get along throughout our trip. For some reason, while she was living in New York, I would go to visit and by the third day, every single time, we would be so mad at each other. This time, we made it two solid weeks and had only one minor spat. We were arguing about a sign in one of the Paris subways -- a very confusing one at that -- and I was saying we should go one way while she was saying we should go another. Graced with the art of direction, she managed to prove me wrong -- figures.

All in all, my mom was right. Our two weeks in Europe was an experience I will never forget. I got to experience some of the most amazing, humbling, and eye-opening places with her. Some people prefer to travel alone, not wanting to mess with the plans that someone else might have. I can understand and respect that.  I've often thought about traveling by myself and have absolutely nothing against those that do...who knows, I just might one day.

Until then, I prefer to share my worldly travels with those I love, whether that be my parents, my sister, or my friends. Hey, at least I won't have to worry about some stranger running off with my camera when I ask someone to take my photo!

Kiss Me...Wait, I'm Not Completely Irish

Okay, so I know it has been awhile since my last post. I have a good reason though. I started working out and have been utterly exhausted each night! I promise not to go so long without posting next time though!

So, I've been doing some thinking and I've decided that Ireland will be my destination of choice this coming April (at least that is when I hope to go). I've bought my guide book and already decided on different attractions to see while I am there; however, it is always nice to hear from those who have visited the land of St. Patrick.

Basically, I'm hoping for a 10-day trip, traveling to Dublin, Belfast, Galway, and Cork. Since this year is the 100-year anniversary of the sinking of the Titanic, there is an exhibition in Belfast, so naturally, that is part of my itinerary.

I would like to hear from those of you who have traveled to Ireland. Where did you stay? How is the rail travel? What is a must-see and what is a miss? I would certainly appreciate any advice!!!!

My Love Affair with Museums

I must say, I have been to many museums in my life. Whether it hold paintings, sculptures or history, I'm usually always in the mood to check out what is inside these grand buildings. As awe-inspiring as the contents inside may be, the exterior of a museum can be just as remarkable. The architecture of a place can often make your experience even more memorable and enjoyable.

Having visited my fair share of museums, I would have to say my top five include:
1) The Louvre in Paris -- This one is a no-brainer. The Lourve is a world-wide showcase of elegant and classic art. Only the best of the best make it inside its walls. People line up to see items, such as the 'Mona Lisa' and  'Venus de Milo.' It is a must for all museum devotees.

2) The Metropolitan Museum of Art -- Again, the Met is to the United States like the Lourve is to France (maybe more like Europe). The only time I've been was when I visited New York six years ago. Thinking we would only spend a few hours at most, I learned quite quickly that you cannot spend just a couple of hours in the Met. Two hours turned into five and I was never more happy.

3) Holocaust Museum in D.C. -- If you want an experience that will humble you, bring about multiple emotions, and teach you valuable life lessons, this is a museum that you MUST visit. Located in Washington, D.C., the Holocaust Museum is a multi-floored building filled with photos, videos and heartwrenching stories that will cause you to wonder how evil man can be. Advice: Whether or not you have a child with you, you must go through "Daniel's Story." It is a world created through the eyes of a Jewish child and his experience during the Holocaust.

4) Vatican Museums in Rome -- Comprised of various buildings and rooms, the Vatican Museums provide sculptures and art from all types of artists, from various time periods. The most amazing and unforgettable piece is naturally, the Sistine Chapel. Those who visit Vatican City and do not see the Sistine Chapel, well, you're a moron. Stepping inside, it is a room that will literally take your breath away. Viewing "The Last Judgement," one who is religious, as am I, feels a sense of hope and horror all in one.

5) Crystal Bridges in Bentonville -- My family and I visited this museum during the Thanksgiving break and I must say, it is a beautiful addition to the state of Arkansas. Holding art that spans from the 18th century to today, visitors can see popular artists, such as Norman Rockwell's "Rosie the Riveter," Andy Warhol's "Dolly Parton," and Asher Brown Durand's "Kindred Spirits." The outside, although not finished, has beautiful walking trails and biking paths for those who want the best of both worlds -- art and nature.

Here are a few photos from our visit:

It may not look like much in these photos (I was trying to take photos while walking), but seeing it in person, it is truly unbelievable.

Goodbye to 2011...Hello 2012!!!

Let me take this opportunity to wish each and every one of you a wonderful and Happy New Year! This past year brought many changes in my life -- some good, some bad; however, the chance to share my stories with all of you has been incredible.

As I look to 2012, I hope that not only new experiences, new adventures and new people enter my life, but I hope the same for all of you as well.  This past year has brought me some difficult times but through my faith, I have come through.

Thank you all for being so kind and supportive while following my blog. It is so nice knowing that people out there actually want to take time out of their day to read your thoughts.  Starting out, I never would have imagined that I would have even TWO followers and although I'm hoping to get more in the future, I'm thankful for each of you!

HAPPY NEW YEAR AND GOD BLESS!!!!!

Holiday Road

Christmas is coming and let's just say, I'm a bit panicked! Due to my busy work life, as well as events that have caused me to be out of town the past few weekends, my Christmas shopping has been very nill thus far. However, I did get a chance to do a bit of Xmas shopping this afternoon :) 

Of course, every slow car, every bit of traffic, and for some strange and crazy reason, a freaking parade, seemed to cause my somewhat happy demeanor to turn to aggravation and a boiling point that was topping the scale at around a 10!

Once at home, I couldn't help but smile when I saw my "already read once" Conde Nast Traveler sitting on the kitchen table. When it and my Travel & Leisure arrive, the world is once again, grand! I immediately started thinking of all the places I would love to spend the holidays in and of course, the most notable popped into my head -- Hawaii. 

To wake up on Christmas morning and open the door to see waves, sand and maybe a Santa sunbathing on the beach...now that would be a relaxing Christmas.  I've always thought spending Christmas in Hawaii would be one holiday I would never forget; however, until Hell decides to freeze over, my mom will expect a tree, presents and Christmas dinner at her house every year (which, I guess is okay since she cooks some amazingly good food at Christmas!)

So, since I'll be spending Christmas at home, I'll just pull out my faithful and friendly travel magazines and let their photos and words keep me company. Besides, if I couldn't handle traffic and a parade, I'm sure I'd get thrown into an airport holding cell if I were to go somewhere at Christmas.

Where has been the most unique and memorable place you've spent Christmas?

We Found Atlantis!

For any of you who have been to Nassau in the Bahamas, I am sure you have either seen or visited the monstrosity that is Atlantis. A hotel that stands high above the blue waters, it shines of pink paint and looks like something off the cover of The Little Mermaid. Although it is far too expensive to stay within its rooms, one must make time to visit its grounds.

Visiting this site, one can enjoy the beauty of its indoor murals, aquarium, glass work and outdoor paths and walkways. On one particular visit, my family and I decided to pay the somewhat steep price, and walk through the hotel’s aquarium. I have been to my share of aquariums and I must say this one was something else. Creatures of all kinds swim within its waters, providing onlookers with a look into the sea life that calls Atlantis its home.

Zeus, a massive manta ray that was released into the "wild" not long after our visit

Outside, while walking along its many pathways, you will find that beneath you, fish, turtles and other sea creatures provide an extra bit of entertainment as you take in the exterior of the hotel. One year, at Christmas, the boating area, filled with yachts and sailboats, led me to imagine just how amazing it would be to spend the holiday down in the Caribbean, listening to steel drums play Christmas songs while I lay out on the deck of my own personal boat…*sigh* maybe that is what Santa can bring me this year…my own boat and a docking slip in the Bahamas!

And the Book List Continues...

A Thousand Days in Venice by Marlena De Blasi: I will admit, I’m not a fan of love stories. Unfortunately, this book is very much a “love” story. Although I did not dislike the book, I was also not a huge fan. The story follows a woman who travels to Venice and notices this man eyeing her…well, maybe more like ogling her. Turning down his efforts to get together, she leaves Venice but returns many years later only to find that she meets this man yet again. Eventually, she uproots herself from a life in America and moves to Venice to marry this man. The book follows their life in Venice, their ups and downs and the quirks that they find charming or annoying about each other. To be honest, the book dragged on and I was quite happy once I reached the end. If you’re not one for love stories, I would probably pass on this book.

The Monster of Florence: A True Story by Douglas Preston with Mario Spezi: Unlike my review above, I loved this book. Based on a true story, Douglas Preston and Mario Spezi tell the story of the Monster of Florence, covering everything from who (supposedly) did and did not commit the murders, the evidence, the media and system. Unknowing of any of these events, I was captivated by the story. It is a true real-crime event that truly rocked Florence and its people.

 

More Sand in My Bra: Funny Women Write from the Road, Again by Jennifer Leo and Julie Weiler: I know I’ve reviewed just about every Jennifer Leo book; however, there are a few that I have yet to read. This one, well…I’ll admit was not as funny as “Whose Panties Are These?” which was the very first book that I read by Leo. The women who contribute to these books do have humorous stories; however, it does seem that they tend to be less and less amusing. Luckily, I was impressed enough by the first book of hers that I read, that I will continue to read each of these witty titles, in hopes that I can once again find humor in these ladies’ tales.

The Thong Also Rises by Jennifer Leo: I can sum up this review in just a few quick words…Although I found the humor to be minimal in this book, I still have hope.

Notes From a Small Island by Bill Bryson: Talented, funny and extremely knowledgeable about his surroundings, Bill Bryson informs his readers about the ins, outs and all-around beauty that is the United Kingdom. Covering London, Edinburgh, Durham and multiple cities in between, it is not hard to picture these places in your mind. Years spent traveling to various countries, Bryson knows a multitude of information about the places he visits, and yet, he provides an entertaining read.